Monday, May 3, 2010

How can a Woman Stir a Man's Heart?

Most women put too much effort in making themselves look beautiful to be able to win a man's love. They think that beauty is on top of a man's priority list of the qualities a woman must have.

Is beauty really the number one quality a woman must have to awaken his love. Does beauty makes a man truly happy in a relationship?

Most men say that beauty is significant since the first step in a relationship is physical attraction. A man and a woman normally admire a certain physical characteristic such as his or her warm smile, tantalizing eyes, shiny hair, and other physical attibutes. Beauty according to most men is relevant but it isn't the most important.

Naturally women spend hours putting on their make up, choosing a nice dress, jewelry, perfume, and doing other things to make sure that they always look attractive. You can't blame a woman to do this because she wants to please the man of her dreams.
Many believe in the famous saying "Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder." Yes it's true, i sometimes observe a good looking guy who is happily inlove with a simple looking gal, some are puzzled. Indeed, a man perceives a woman beautiful in different ways.

Helen Andelin-author of Fascinating Womanhood shared success stories of relationships/marriages and enumerated the important qualities of the women who are able to stimulate the love of their husbands with complete devotion. Surprisingly these women seem to have if not the same, closely similar traits.

I am convince that the answer to the question, "How can a woman stir a man's love?" is when a woman has the following personality.

1. A woman must have a happy spirit. A man admires a woman who has happiness of her own, who is   
    able to greet each day with a smile and love in her heart. Any man doesn't want to be with somebody who
    is constantly pouting and irritable. A man desires a woman who can make his day stress free.

2. She must act  femininely. He expects his woman to act and speak with grace and elegance. Sometimes
    a man is fascinated with a lady who has a child-like character who displays her need to be protected.
    Remember that a man's nature is to provide protection and support for a woman. Even if you are an
    independent woman capable of taking care of yourself, you must show that you depend on him.

3. A Woman must be of Good Character who is  able to understand his needs, who is trusting and who
    notices and gives credit to his efforts. A man loves to be admired, it boosts his confidence.

4.A woman must know how to be a good Homemaker- Never forget that "The way to a man's heart is
    through his stomach" as woman you must know how to cook with your heart. You should be able to
    prepare a healthy meal and avoid ready to serve meals from the store.You must know how to organize
    and maintain a relaxing, clutter free home.

 You don't need to be a super model to arouse a man's deep affection for you. All  you need is to have a woman's character from a man's point of view. To make it simple, Man are more fascinated to a woman who is beautiful inside.

Check out Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin for further reading, i can say it's a good book and you'll be able to learn a lot from it.

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